fixes to address connection errors and rise on adding peers into RT & extra disk writes #10789

Job	Run time
build	6s
lint	20s
various checks	14m 29s
Unused dependency check	7m 51s
E2E tests (ubuntu-latest, /home/runner/.local/share/autonomi)	29m 39s
Unit Tests (ubuntu-latest)	5m 15s
E2E tests (windows-latest, C:\\Users\\runneradmin\\AppData\\Roaming\\autonomi)	35m 9s
Unit Tests (windows-latest)	13m 1s
E2E tests (macos-latest, /Users/runner/Library/Application\ Support/autonomi)	31m 6s
Unit Tests (macos-latest)	5m 33s
Network churning tests (ubuntu-latest, /home/runner/.local/share/autonomi/node, /home/runner/.loc...	18m 57s
Large file upload	5m 58s
Network churning tests (windows-latest, C:\\Users\\runneradmin\\AppData\\Roaming\\autonomi\\node,...	27m 28s
Verify data location and Routing Table (ubuntu-latest, /home/runner/.local/share/autonomi/node, /...	21m 4s
Network churning tests (macos-latest, /Users/runner/Library/Application Support/autonomi/node, /U...	18m 40s
Verify data location and Routing Table (windows-latest, C:\\Users\\runneradmin\\AppData\\Roaming\...	30m 28s
Verify data location and Routing Table (macos-latest, /Users/runner/Library/Application Support/a...	21m 41s
	4h 46m 45s

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