update replace directives in go.mod

[cfryanr]

• Bump github.com/ory/x to latest
• Remove replace directive for go.opentelemetry.io/otel/exporters/otlp/otlptrace/otlptracehttp because it is no longer needed to fix compilation errors after bumping ory/x
• Remove other old replace directives because our indirect deps now select newer versions that what we were specifying in those replace directives.
• Add a reminder to the release checklist that we should be doing this before every release

Release note:

NONE

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