add tests with ASAN to node CI #4697

Job	Run time
ci (ubuntu-20.04, 18, Release)	6m 19s
ci (ubuntu-20.04, 18, Debug)	5m 50s
ci (ubuntu-22.04, 20, Release)	5m 47s
ci (ubuntu-22.04, 20, Debug)	5m 24s
ci (ubuntu-24.04, 20, -Db_sanitize=address, Release)	9m 5s
ci (ubuntu-24.04, 20, -Db_sanitize=address, Debug)	6m 12s
ci (ubuntu-24.04, 20, -Db_sanitize=undefined, Release)	9m 29s
ci (ubuntu-24.04, 20, -Db_sanitize=undefined, Debug)	6m 58s
ci (ubuntu-24.04, 20, -Db_sanitize=thread, Release)	7m 20s
ci (ubuntu-24.04, 20, -Db_sanitize=thread, Debug)	6m 7s
ci (macos-12, 18, Release)	10m 8s
ci (macos-12, 18, Debug)	6m 25s
ci (macos-14, 20, Release)	4m 11s
ci (macos-14, 20, Debug)	4m 31s
ci (windows-2022, 20, Release)	8m 13s
ci (windows-2022, 20, Debug)	8m 18s
	1h 50m 17s

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