Update tt-metal to Nov15 commit 42035c1711 plus cherry pick fixes (#1295

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- Cherry pick 2 metal fixes from Nov18 tt-metal main needed for tt-mlir/tt-forge-fe fails
- Can't move to latest tt-metal, exposing other issues (sharding related)

third_party/CMakeLists.txt

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 include(ExternalProject)
 
-set(TT_METAL_VERSION "1d79aeef7a28911bd817a2da78ad925da3ed06f5")
+set(TT_METAL_VERSION "f16cadfabebd7654baef73e4ac2c3240b12b0d1d")
 
 if ("$ENV{ARCH_NAME}" STREQUAL "grayskull")
   set(ARCH_NAME "grayskull")