feat: show thread name in logs for playground and standalone

[BugenZhao]

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What's changed and what's your intention?

See backgrounds from #13988.

Not sure if the current thread names help much but I guess it's a good to have.

• Show thread names in logs for playground and standalone.
• Shorten the thread names to comply with Linux's 16-character limit.
• Also include the Java thread's name as a field in tracing_slf4j. This is not restricted to the playground or standalone profile.

Preview:

2023-12-21T14:00:06.823695+08:00  INFO rw-streaming actor{otel.name="Actor 12" actor_id=12}:executor{otel.name="Source C00002716 (actor 12)" actor_id=12}: risingwave_stream::executor::source::source_executor: source exector: actor 12 boot with splits: []

2023-12-21T14:33:31.611598+08:00 DEBUG     rw-batch batch_execute{task_id=2 stage_id=1 query_id="ecc10067-f10f-47ae-8d64-6a1451250a50"}: risingwave_batch::task::task_execution: Batch task TaskId { task_id: 2, stage_id: 1, query_id: "ecc10067-f10f-47ae-8d64-6a1451250a50" } finished successfully.

2023-12-21T14:00:07.581617+08:00  INFO ThreadId(35) risingwave_connector_node: Taking initial snapshot for new datasource thread="debezium-postgresconnector-RW_CDC_1002-change-event-source-coordinator" class="io.debezium.connector.postgresql.snapshot.InitialSnapshotter"

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[StrikeW]

What does otel mean?

[BugenZhao]

It's the abbreviation of opentelemetry.