feat: Add statement_timeout for query.

[liurenjie1024]

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Close #7409 .

Releated #9732.

In this pr we add statement_timeout for dql statement, other ddl, dml statements are not affected. The default value is 1 hour.

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User can run set statement_timeout = 10 to set the value for session. And the default value is in config batch.statement_timeout_in_sec, default value is 1 hour.

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Attention: 47 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Comparison is base (fd3b763) 68.05% compared to head (cdee192) 68.04%.
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src/frontend/src/scheduler/local.rs	40.00%	18 Missing ⚠️
src/frontend/src/scheduler/distributed/query.rs	42.30%	15 Missing ⚠️
src/frontend/src/handler/query.rs	50.00%	12 Missing ⚠️
...rontend/src/scheduler/distributed/query_manager.rs	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️
src/frontend/src/session.rs	80.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

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[liurenjie1024]

There is a bug in madsim which may lead to invalid memory access. We skip madsim using this approach for now.

[yezizp2012]

LGTM