feat(state_table): state table try flush for non-checkpoint barrier

[wcy-fdu]

I hereby agree to the terms of the RisingWave Labs, Inc. Contributor License Agreement.

What's changed and what's your intention?

#12419

Checklist

• I have written necessary rustdoc comments
• I have added necessary unit tests and integration tests
• I have added fuzzing tests or opened an issue to track them. (Optional, recommended for new SQL features Sqlsmith: Sql feature generation #7934).
• My PR contains breaking changes. (If it deprecates some features, please create a tracking issue to remove them in the future).
• All checks passed in ./risedev check (or alias, ./risedev c)
• My PR changes performance-critical code. (Please run macro/micro-benchmarks and show the results.)

• My PR contains critical fixes that are necessary to be merged into the latest release. (Please check out the details)

Documentation

• My PR needs documentation updates. (Please use the Release note section below to summarize the impact on users)

Release note

If this PR includes changes that directly affect users or other significant modifications relevant to the community, kindly draft a release note to provide a concise summary of these changes. Please prioritize highlighting the impact these changes will have on users.

[wcy-fdu]

New update:
We decided to keep non-checkpoint barrier and try_flush interface, but barrier and checkpoint decouple are not turned on by default. @hzxa21 PTAL

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: 382 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Comparison is base (132f7a1) 68.17% compared to head (32d56db) 68.20%.
Report is 17 commits behind head on main.

Files	Patch %	Lines
src/compute/src/memory/controller.rs	0.00%	87 Missing ⚠️
src/object_store/src/object/s3.rs	0.00%	50 Missing ⚠️
src/compute/src/memory/manager.rs	0.00%	48 Missing ⚠️
...log/rw_catalog/rw_hummock_compact_task_progress.rs	0.00%	35 Missing ⚠️
src/object_store/src/object/mod.rs	46.87%	17 Missing ⚠️
src/meta/service/src/hummock_service.rs	0.00%	14 Missing ⚠️
src/stream/src/common/table/state_table.rs	81.96%	11 Missing ⚠️
src/meta/model_v2/src/hummock_version_delta.rs	0.00%	9 Missing ⚠️
src/rpc_client/src/meta_client.rs	0.00%	9 Missing ⚠️
...catalog/rw_catalog/rw_hummock_compaction_status.rs	0.00%	8 Missing ⚠️
... and 26 more

Additional details and impacted files

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##             main   #12418      +/-   ##
==========================================
+ Coverage   68.17%   68.20%   +0.02%     
==========================================
  Files        1521     1523       +2     
  Lines      261770   262027     +257     
==========================================
+ Hits       178459   178705     +246     
- Misses      83311    83322      +11     

Flag	Coverage Δ
rust	68.20% <54.84%> (+0.02%)	⬆️

Flags with carried forward coverage won't be shown. Click here to find out more.

☔ View full report in Codecov by Sentry.
📢 Have feedback on the report? Share it here.

[wcy-fdu]

PTAL @hzxa21 ❤️

[wcy-fdu]

Will open this PR if needed.