Dataframe view update and blueprint API (part 3): use the new query o…

…bject for column visibility (#7545)

### What

This PR wires the column visibility code to the new query object, and
cleans up the old code and related blueprint object. At this point the
dataframe view is in this weird spot where the old ui is used for
everything _but column visibility_.

**Reviewer**: `space_view_class.rs` is where the interesting stuff is
(and is collapsed by default by GH).

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Part of a series to address #6896 and #7498.

All PRs:
- #7515
- #7516
- #7527 
- #7545
- #7551
- #7572
- #7573

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