Implement pending queue in mux for dropped packets

[lactyy]

Description

As explained in this thread on the Gophers Slack, internal/mux needs a pending queue for packets that would be dropped in some ORTC situations (e.g. ICE transport blocks until it is in a connected state, losing any DTLS packets received in the meantime).

Reference issue

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 77.77778% with 8 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 79.04%. Comparing base (b874788) to head (a1c1347).

Files	Patch %	Lines
internal/mux/mux.go	77.77%	6 Missing and 2 partials ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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##           master    #2813      +/-   ##
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- Coverage   80.68%   79.04%   -1.64%     
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  Files          78       89      +11     
  Lines        7548     8299     +751     
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+ Hits         6090     6560     +470     
- Misses       1032     1267     +235     
- Partials      426      472      +46     

Flag	Coverage Δ
go	80.65% <77.77%> (-0.04%)	⬇️
wasm	65.05% <75.00%> (?)

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