ENH: expose to_pandas_kwargs in read_parquet with pyarrow backend

[kleinhenz]

• closes ENH: Expose to_pandas_kwargs in read_parquet for pyarrow engine #49236, BUG: parquet serialization/deserialization adds all dict keys into column #56842
• Tests added and passed if fixing a bug or adding a new feature
• All code checks passed.
• Added type annotations to new arguments/methods/functions.
• Added an entry in the latest doc/source/whatsnew/vX.X.X.rst file if fixing a bug or adding a new feature.

[kleinhenz]

@jorisvandenbossche would you be able to review? Tagging you since you mentioned this in #56842.

[yuanx749]

Would be better if also add to_pandas_kwargs to read_parquet explicitly.

[kleinhenz]

Would be better if also add to_pandas_kwargs to read_parquet explicitly.

I wasn't sure if I should do this since it is an engine specific option. Happy to add it though.

[gtholpadi]

Looking forward to upgrading to this fix. Due to this issue, I am currently using pickles, which is not ideal.

[github-actions]

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[mroeschke]

Thanks for the pull request, but it appears to have gone stale. If interested in continuing, please merge in the main branch, address any review comments and/or failing tests, and we can reopen.

[jorisvandenbossche]

Apologies for the slow follow-up!

Could you also add a parameter description to the docstring?

[jorisvandenbossche]

(I see that in #57044, we had some discussion if we actually want this .. Will move that part of the discussion to the issue)

[kleinhenz]

@jorisvandenbossche I think I've addressed your comments and resolved merge conflicts.

[jorisvandenbossche]

Thanks for the update! The code looks good, just two small comments on the docs

[jorisvandenbossche]

Looks good!

[jorisvandenbossche]

Thanks @kleinhenz!