Update releasing docs from run-through with Nikki

docs/contributing/releasing.md

@@ -3,26 +3,62 @@
 > :memo: The versioning scheme we use is [SemVer](http://semver.org/). Note that until
 > we agree we're ready for v1.0.0, we will not increment the major version.
 
-1. Ensure all desired features are merged to `main` branch and `CHANGELOG.md` is updated.
+1. Ensure all desired features are merged to `main` branch and `CHANGELOG.md` is
+   updated. **Do not** edit the `Unreleased` header in the CHANGELOG -- the next step
+   will automatically update it.
+
 1. Use `bump-my-version` to increase the version number in all needed places, e.g. to
    increase the minor version (`1.2.3` to `1.3.0`):
 
-   ```plain
-   bump-my-version bump minor
-   ```
+    ```plain
+    bump-my-version bump minor
+    ```
+
+    Add, commit, and push the files changed by `bump-my-version`.
+
+    !!! note
+
+        The files managed by `bump-my-version` are configured in `pyproject.toml`.
 
 1. Push a tag on the new commit containing the version number, prefixed with `v`, e.g.
    `v1.3.0`.
+
+    ```plain
+    git tag v1.3.0  # EXAMPLE version number
+    ```
+
+    !!! tip
+
+        It's a good idea to use `git log`, e.g. `git log --decorate --oneline
+        --pretty` to verify the tag is on the correct commit before pushing.
+
+    ```plain
+    git push origin v1.3.0  # EXAMPLE version number
+    ```
+
 1. [Create a new GitHub Release](https://github.com/nsidc/earthaccess/releases/new). We
-   hand-curate our release notes to be valuable to humans. Please do not auto-generate
-   release notes and aim for consistency with the GitHub Release descriptions from other
-   releases.
-
-> :gear: After the GitHub release is published, multiple automations will trigger:
->
-> - Zenodo will create a new DOI.
-> - GitHub Actions will publish a PyPI release.
-
-> :memo: `earthaccess` is published to conda-forge through the
-> [earthdata-feedstock](https://github.com/conda-forge/earthdata-feedstock), as this
-> project was renamed early in its life. The conda package is named `earthaccess`.
+   hand-curate our release notes to be valuable to humans. Please auto-generate
+   release notes, but replace the "What's changed" section with the Markdown from the
+   new CHANGELOG section for this release. Retain the "New contributors" and "Full
+   changelog" text generated by GitHub. Ensure "Set as latest release" is checked.
+
+    !!! info
+
+        After the GitHub release is published, multiple automations will trigger:
+
+        - Zenodo will create a new DOI.
+        - GitHub Actions will publish a PyPI release.
+
+1. Once the package is visible on PyPI, check it's installable with `pip install
+   earthaccess==vX.Y.Z`.
+
+1. After the package is released on PyPI, follow the
+   [conda-forge maintainer process](https://conda-forge.org/docs/maintainer/) to release
+   the package on conda-forge.
+
+    !!! note
+
+        :memo: `earthaccess` is published to conda-forge through the
+        [earthdata-feedstock](https://github.com/conda-forge/earthdata-feedstock), as
+        this project was renamed early in its life. The conda package is named
+        `earthaccess`.