fixes to address connection errors and rise on adding peers into RT & extra disk writes #10784

Job	Run time
build	4s
various checks	14m 16s
Unused dependency check	8m 5s
lint	20s
Network churning tests (ubuntu-latest, /home/runner/.local/share/autonomi/node, /home/runner/.loc...	23m 4s
E2E tests (ubuntu-latest, /home/runner/.local/share/autonomi)	34m 29s
Network churning tests (windows-latest, C:\\Users\\runneradmin\\AppData\\Roaming\\autonomi\\node,...	36m 17s
E2E tests (windows-latest, C:\\Users\\runneradmin\\AppData\\Roaming\\autonomi)	44m 51s
Network churning tests (macos-latest, /Users/runner/Library/Application Support/autonomi/node, /U...	21m 9s
E2E tests (macos-latest, /Users/runner/Library/Application\ Support/autonomi)	34m 6s
Large file upload	10m 17s
Unit Tests (ubuntu-latest)	13m 26s
Verify data location and Routing Table (ubuntu-latest, /home/runner/.local/share/autonomi/node, /...	26m 19s
Unit Tests (windows-latest)	26m 2s
Verify data location and Routing Table (windows-latest, C:\\Users\\runneradmin\\AppData\\Roaming\...	39m 21s
Unit Tests (macos-latest)	12m 33s
Verify data location and Routing Table (macos-latest, /Users/runner/Library/Application Support/a...	21m 7s
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