[#1702] support StatelessSession.upsert() #3549

Job	Run time
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Run examples in 'session-example' on MySQL	1m 35s
Run examples in 'session-example' on PostgreSQL	1m 57s
Run examples in 'native-sql-example' on PostgreSQL	1m 56s
Test with MariaDB	1m 4s
Test with MySQL	53s
Test with PostgreSQL	59s
Test with MSSQLServer	1m 6s
Test with CockroachDB	56s
Test with Db2	1m 8s
Test with Oracle	58s
Test with Java 11	1m 12s
Test with Java 17	1m 17s
Test with Java 20	1m 11s
Test with Java 21-ea	1m 32s
Test with Java 22-ea	1m 38s
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