fail start if depependency is missing

[ndeloof]

What I did
as we wait for dependencies, if no container is found fail or warn user. This should never happen using up as convergence created the dependencies in order.

Related issue
closes #11107

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[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: 3 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Comparison is base (fd8ab2f) 58.81% compared to head (662f8b4) 57.56%.
Report is 110 commits behind head on main.

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- Coverage   58.81%   57.56%   -1.25%     
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  Files         120      129       +9     
  Lines       10454    11274     +820     
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+ Hits         6148     6490     +342     
- Misses       3706     4154     +448     
- Partials      600      630      +30     

Files	Coverage Δ
pkg/compose/run.go	55.04% <100.00%> (-0.41%)	⬇️
pkg/compose/start.go	62.34% <100.00%> (-3.09%)	⬇️
pkg/compose/convergence.go	70.92% <66.66%> (+1.30%)	⬆️

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[glours]

LGTM