Backport "Add metric -- count of queries waiting for merge buffers" …

[hardikbajaj]

• Add metric -- count of queries waiting for merge buffers (Add metric -- count of queries waiting for merge buffers apache/druid#15025)

Add 'mergeBuffer/pendingRequests' metric that exposes the count of waiting queries (threads) blocking in the merge buffers pools.

• Update addMetric to build

Backports: apache#15025
Only change

emitter.emit(builder.setMetric("mergeBuffer/pendingRequests", pendingQueries));  --> 
emitter.emit(builder.build("mergeBuffer/pendingRequests", pendingQueries));

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[pagrawal10]

lgtm