[WIP] Updating CAPI v1.6.0 and controller runtime v0.17.0

[pokearu]

Description of changes:
Updating CAPI and controller runtime dependency versions on EKS-A. This also includes pointing to newer versions for CAPI providers.

Changes to migrate from CAPI 1.4 https://cluster-api.sigs.k8s.io/developer/providers/migrations/v1.4-to-v1.5

Note: There is an open issue on controller-runtime where Fake client expects finalizers on objects added with a deletion timestamp. Hence incorporated those in our tests.
kubernetes-sigs/controller-runtime#2359

Testing (if applicable):
make unit-test

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 75.82418% with 44 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 73.54%. Comparing base (4583834) to head (1aa4d2c).
Report is 171 commits behind head on main.

Files	Patch %	Lines
pkg/api/v1alpha1/gitopsconfig_webhook.go	25.00%	6 Missing ⚠️
...api/v1alpha1/cloudstackdatacenterconfig_webhook.go	50.00%	5 Missing ⚠️
pkg/api/v1alpha1/fluxconfig_webhook.go	44.44%	5 Missing ⚠️
pkg/api/v1alpha1/oidcconfig_webhook.go	60.00%	4 Missing ⚠️
...kg/api/v1alpha1/tinkerbellmachineconfig_webhook.go	63.63%	4 Missing ⚠️
pkg/api/v1alpha1/awsiamconfig_webhook.go	62.50%	3 Missing ⚠️
...kg/api/v1alpha1/cloudstackmachineconfig_webhook.go	76.92%	3 Missing ⚠️
...kg/api/v1alpha1/vspheredatacenterconfig_webhook.go	75.00%	3 Missing ⚠️
pkg/api/v1alpha1/vspheremachineconfig_webhook.go	76.92%	3 Missing ⚠️
pkg/api/v1alpha1/cluster_webhook.go	81.81%	2 Missing ⚠️
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[pokearu]

/test eks-anywhere-e2e-presubmit

[pokearu]

Closing this PR out since most changes went in with this PR #7788