improves batch build generation

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Description of changes:

The primary goal of this PR to decrease the number of builds the staging build kicks off. The main changes are:

• released branch builds, cpi-vsphere/bottlerocket-bootstrap/kind, are changed to be based on platform/arch instead of kube version. The instance size is bumped to try and account for the difference in time.
• the image-builder build in staging only handles the BR artifacts. Those builds have been combined into a single build that downloads an uploads the raw and ova images.
• the kind build was changed to be by arch with 4 parts, binaries/base images/node images/combine images. This drastically cuts down the number of builds.

Also improved the definition of these batch builds in the makefiles.

• added a default for the common case which combine images
• the script figures out the common deps so we dont have to define them in the makefiles. This supports the cases where we break builds up by binary or image platform.
• better handling of identifier name based on buildspec name

Removes the qemu binfmt install. We should see if we can avoid relying on this and instead just break builds up that need to be run on different archs.

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