feat: support user-defined configmap/secrets (#4885)

[sophon-zt]

user defines configmap/secrets volumes

  componentSpecs:
  - componentDefRef: mysql
    ....
   userResourceRefs:
       secretRefs:
           name: my-secret-volume
           mountPoint: /ops/config
           ### asVolumeFrom defines the list of containers will be injected into volumeMounts.
           asVolumeFrom: 
              - mysql
           secret:
                SecretName:  my-secret
       configMapRefs:
           name: my-config-volume
           mountPoint: /ops/scripts
           ### asVolumeFrom defines the list of containers will be injected into volumeMounts.
           asVolumeFrom: 
              - mysql
           configMap:
                name:  my-config
       

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[sophon-zt]

/approve