SOLR-17306: fix replication problem on follower restart

[ds-manzinger]

https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/SOLR-17306

Same as #2873 -> but now against main branch

Description

If Leader has Replication disabled - do not delete Followers data on restart

Solution

Check if Leader Replication is enabled

Tests

Implemented Unit Tests, that check different restart scenarios. Enable Directory Storage for Replica, othwerwise tests will not work because memory is cleaned on restart

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