feat(core): Implement list with deleted for s3 service

[Xuanwo]

Which issue does this PR close?

Part of #5496

Rationale for this change

Implement the RFC we need.

What changes are included in this PR?

• Add deleted in OpList
• Add is_deleted in Metadata
• Implement tests for list with deleted
• Implement list with deleted for s3 services

Are there any user-facing changes?

Users can now list deleted files from s3 services.

[codspeed-hq]

CodSpeed Performance Report

Merging #5498 will improve performances by 18.88%

_{Comparing implement-list-with-deleted (a739a68) with main (7a83013)}

Summary

⚡ 4 improvements
✅ 69 untouched benchmarks

Benchmarks breakdown

	Benchmark	main	implement-list-with-deleted	Change
⚡	256 KiB * 1000k chunk	183.6 ns	154.4 ns	+18.88%
⚡	256 KiB * 100k chunk	183.6 ns	154.4 ns	+18.88%
⚡	256 KiB * 10k chunk	183.6 ns	154.4 ns	+18.88%
⚡	256 KiB * 1k chunk	212.8 ns	183.6 ns	+15.89%

[hoslo]

LGTM.

[meteorgan]

Did I misunderstand something ? this implementation seems to differ from the RFC description:

opendal/core/src/docs/rfcs/5495_list_with_deleted.md

Line 35 in 0146a12

Please note that `deleted` here means "including deleted files" rather than "only deleted files." Therefore, `list_with(path).deleted(true)` will list both current files and deleted ones.