Implement node evacuation filtering during checks and add blacklist for stoppable checks

[MarkGaox]

Issues

• My PR addresses the following Helix issues and references them in the PR description:
  Cross-zone Stoppable Check #2655

Description

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• Add support to filter out evacuating nodes during stoppable checks:
  • siblingNodesActiveReplicaCheck
  • perPartitionHealthCheck
• Provision the users with the capability to blacklist a subset of stoppable checks so that Helix will only perform the rest of stoppable checks.

• Notes
  • We don't need to filtering out "SWAP_IN" "SWAP_OUT" instances during stoppable check because they would have the same logical id, which means only one node will be assignable. And we can just treat the node gets assigned as a normal node without the instanceOperation tag.
  • The instanceNotExist checks will always be performed. And the user is not allowed to disable that check.

Tests

• The following tests are written for this issue:
  mvn test -Dtest=TestInstancesAccessor,TestMaintenanceManagementService,TestInstanceValidationUtilInRest,TestPerInstanceAccessor -pl helix-rest && mvn test -Dtest=TestInstanceValidationUtil -pl helix-core

[INFO] Tests run: 46, Failures: 0, Errors: 0, Skipped: 0, Time elapsed: 64.604 s - in TestSuite
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[INFO] Results:
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[INFO] Tests run: 46, Failures: 0, Errors: 0, Skipped: 0
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[INFO] --- jacoco:0.8.6:report (generate-code-coverage-report) @ helix-rest ---
[INFO] Loading execution data file /Users/xiaxgao/IdeaProjects/helix_ps/helix-rest/target/jacoco.exec
[INFO] Analyzed bundle 'Apache Helix :: Restful Interface' with 95 classes
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[INFO] BUILD SUCCESS
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[INFO] Total time:  01:07 min
[INFO] Finished at: 2023-10-31T23:44:24-07:00
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[INFO] Tests run: 25, Failures: 0, Errors: 0, Skipped: 0, Time elapsed: 2.037 s - in org.apache.helix.util.TestInstanceValidationUtil
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[INFO] Results:
[INFO] 
[INFO] Tests run: 25, Failures: 0, Errors: 0, Skipped: 0
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[INFO] --- jacoco:0.8.6:report (generate-code-coverage-report) @ helix-core ---
[INFO] Loading execution data file /Users/xiaxgao/IdeaProjects/helix_ps/helix-core/target/jacoco.exec
[INFO] Analyzed bundle 'Apache Helix :: Core' with 947 classes
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[INFO] BUILD SUCCESS
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[INFO] Total time:  10.553 s
[INFO] Finished at: 2023-10-31T23:31:04-07:00
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Code Quality

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[junkaixue]

lgtm. please address other ppl's concern.

[zpinto]

LGTM, one small nit in comments

[MarkGaox]

Thanks @xyuanlu @zpinto @junkaixue for reviewing this PR. It's approved by @zpinto @junkaixue @xyuanlu .
Final commit message:
Enhanced stoppable checks with node evacuation filtering and introduced blacklisting capabilities