dnsdist: Improve error messages on security polling failures

[rgacogne]

Short description

Also fix the formatting and clang-tidy warnings in the process.

Checklist

I have:

• read the CONTRIBUTING.md document
• compiled this code
• tested this code
• included documentation (including possible behaviour changes)
• documented the code
• added or modified regression test(s)
• added or modified unit test(s)

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Pull Request Test Coverage Report for Build 12765462940

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Details

• 0 of 44 (0.0%) changed or added relevant lines in 1 file are covered.
• 28 unchanged lines in 8 files lost coverage.
• Overall coverage increased (+0.03%) to 64.901%

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Changes Missing Coverage	Covered Lines	Changed/Added Lines	%
pdns/dnsdistdist/dnsdist-secpoll.cc	0	44	0.0%

Files with Coverage Reduction	New Missed Lines	%
pdns/recursordist/recursor_cache.cc	1	84.35%
pdns/dnsdistdist/dnsdist-secpoll.cc	2	0.0%
modules/lmdbbackend/lmdbbackend.cc	2	72.68%
pdns/recursordist/rec-main.cc	3	62.38%
modules/gpgsqlbackend/spgsql.cc	3	67.7%
pdns/signingpipe.cc	5	84.45%
pdns/recursordist/rec-tcpout.cc	6	50.79%
pdns/misc.cc	6	64.62%

Totals
Change from base Build 12764303024:	0.03%
Covered Lines:	126334
Relevant Lines:	163806

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