[CHIA-1829] don't drop outgoing response messages #29819

Job	Run time
Docker amazonlinux:2023 ARM64	54s
Native 🐧 💪 Non-dev - Non-edit	1m 54s
Docker amazonlinux:2023 Intel	1m 1s
Native 🐧 💪 Non-dev - Edit	1m 49s
Docker arch:latest Intel	53s
Native 🐧 💪 Dev - Non-edit	1m 53s
Native 🐧 💪 Dev - Edit	2m 3s
Docker debian:bullseye ARM64	50s
Docker debian:bullseye Intel	52s
Native 🐧 🌀 Non-dev - Non-edit	51s
Docker debian:bookworm ARM64	53s
Native 🐧 🌀 Non-dev - Edit	47s
Docker debian:bookworm Intel	51s
Native 🐧 🌀 Dev - Non-edit	1m 1s
Native 🐧 🌀 Dev - Edit	52s
Docker fedora:37 ARM64	1m 11s
Native 🍎 💪 Non-dev - Non-edit	59s
Docker fedora:37 Intel	1m 27s
Docker fedora:38 ARM64	1m 21s
Docker fedora:38 Intel	1m 21s
Docker rockylinux:8 ARM64	1m 4s
Native 🍎 💪 Non-dev - Edit	51s
Docker rockylinux:8 Intel	1m 6s
Native 🍎 💪 Dev - Non-edit	1m 19s
Docker rockylinux:9 ARM64	1m 10s
Native 🍎 💪 Dev - Edit	54s
Native 🍎 🌀 Non-dev - Non-edit	1m 33s
Native 🍎 🌀 Non-dev - Edit	1m 6s
Native 🍎 🌀 Dev - Non-edit	1m 17s
Native 🍎 🌀 Dev - Edit	1m 14s
Native 🪟 🌀 Non-dev - Non-edit	8m 36s
Native 🪟 🌀 Non-dev - Edit	8m 15s
Docker rockylinux:9 Intel	59s
Native 🪟 🌀 Dev - Non-edit	9m 8s
Docker ubuntu:focal (20.04) ARM64	1m 26s
Native 🪟 🌀 Dev - Edit	9m 4s
Docker ubuntu:focal (20.04) Intel	1m 21s
Docker ubuntu:jammy (22.04) ARM64	1m 33s
Docker ubuntu:jammy (22.04) Intel	1m 8s
Docker ubuntu:noble (24.04) ARM64	1m 37s
Docker ubuntu:noble (24.04) Intel	1m 21s
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