build: revisit the usage of hakari

[xxchan]

• It doesn't seem to unify enough features. e.g., cargo build -p risingwave_cmd_all , and then cargo build -p risingwave_connector will rebuild from log, which is a lot to re-compile.
• Checks whether hakari unifies dev-dependencies. It caused a problem here (heavy dev-only dependency is unified, and caused increased compilation time): feat(sink): support deltalake sink with rust sdk #13600 (comment)
  • @hzxa21 mentioned that if that is the case, there can be severe problem because some features enabled in dev-dependencies can affect the code behavior in release build. For example, the epoch can be totally wrong in release build. (feature enable_test_epoch).

[xxchan]

#16142